Rules


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OUR RULES

ELIGIBILITY

We host private events withint a non licensed venue. These are social gatherings and are not open to the general public and as such, for the security and privacy of all of our members you are required to complete an application process. Membership will only be granted after validation. Application should be made on line and at least 48 hours prior to your first visit and you must be a minimum of 18 years of age to apply for membership and attend the club.

TV’s, TS’s and MTF’s may apply for membership as a single lady if you hold valid official ID (drivers license or passport) in the persona under which you wish to attend. Otherwise you may still attend as a female but your registration and fees apply as a single gentleman.

IDENTIFICATION

On your first visit you must bring photo ID that provides both proof of age and the address for each member. A new style driving licence has both. If you do not have a driving licence please bring a passport/ID card and a utility bill, mobile phone bill or bank statement to verify your address. Please note that entry may be refused if you are unable to comply.

SUBTERFUGE

Members warrant that they shall not engage in subterfuge at ANY TIME and shall reveal to the management at the time of application and subsequently if their status changes, if they are in any capacity a member of the MEDIA, or are a partner of, or connected to a member of the media in any form and in any capacity including but not restricted to reporter, paparazzi, broadcast, print, social or digital. Acknowledgment does not automatically prohibit membership, but these members warrant that they shall respect and abide by these rules and shall hold the privacy of the club, its events, its members and guests’ paramount at all times. Failure to comply may result in civil action.

MEMBERSHIP CARDS

You will be issued with a membership card which you will need to gain access to an event and should be carried at all times when attending. Membership cards are strictly non-transferable. Misuse of your membership card could lead to membership being revoked. If you lose it, please ask one of the management team for a replacement. An administration charge of £10.00 will be applicable.

ADMISSION

Strictly no admission will be allowed without production of ID or a valid membership card (Presented to you on your first visit). The management reserves the right to refuse admission to an event without giving any reason for such action. No admission will be allowed after 02.00 (Fri & Sat) or earlier at the managements discretion.

If the Management considers that any Member’s conduct either inside or outside of the venue is contrary to the interests of members the Club may expel that member from the venue and/or terminate that Member’s membership without giving any explanation or refund of any membership or party contribution.

Singles attending together but not registered as a couple will be admitted together on all nights including Saturdays. Any concession on admission is purely at the clubs discretion and generally the admission applicable will be the gentlemans rate and the lady will be enjoy complimentary admission.

GUESTS

Unregistered guests are not permitted to enter the venue. If you wish to bring a partner they are required to complete a membership application via our website prior to visiting and provide acceptable identification. We operate a strict door policy. No person under the age of 18 will be allowed entry at any time.

SMOKING & CHEWING GUM

Smoking and chewing gum are not allowed within the venue. Removing chewing gum from carpets and furniture is nasty and can be costly. Offenders will be asked to pay the bill!

ELECTRONIC DEVICES

We understand that you may wish to carry your phone with you, but photography and the recording of audio and/or video is strictly prohibited. We therefore ask that all devices - including but not restricted to mobile phones, cameras, blackberries, tablets, laptops and/or any other equipment capable of audio visual recording are left safely at home, in your car or in a locker, for which a key is available on reception (£20 refundable deposit per key - bring the key back, get your money back. No key = no refund!) Breach of this rule may see members’ equipment confiscated and membership may be revoked.

NB: On occasion we may have an official photographer in attendance for publicity shots and to gather social media content. Rest assured they will not photograph you without your permission and no images will be published anywhere without your full consent.

NOISE & DISTURBANCE

Members are requested to be respectful of our neighbours at all times and keep conversation and noise to an absolute minimum, particularly when arriving and leaving the venue or smoking outside of the premises.

Local authorities have an increasingly low tolerance to noise disturbance and offenders deemed to be too loud will be asked to refrain in order to ensure that no censure to the venue may come to pass.

DRESS CODE

Our dress code is sexy, clean and appropriate for the environment.

Ladies: Smart, sexy or elegant attire is all acceptable. High heels are absolutely encouraged but please, please, please remove them before placing your feet on any furniture or relaxation areas.

Gentlemen: Smart jeans are encouraged but ripped jeans will not be admitted. Shirts with a collar are preferred. You will NOT be granted admission if you wear football or similar sports shirts, sports shorts, tracksuit style trousers, blatant training shoes, dirty footwear, sandals, hats, caps, vests, singlets, tshirts, hoodies or ripped, tattered or dirty clothes. Please dress appropriately and we won’t offend you by refusing entry.

From time to time we have theme nights with a suggest dress code and Fetish/Kink events, where we expect Fetish attire and all black as a minimum.

THE CLOAKROOM

Our cloakroom has limited space, but we will accept coats and small bags for safekeeping. The venue will not be held responsible for loss or damage to any property/luggage at any time. Members will be given a numbered token upon deposit and no property will be returned without the redemption of the corresponding token.

We accept no responsibility for lost/stolen items at any time and left/lost property in the cloak room or found within the venue will be held for a maximum of 14 days before being donated to charity.

DRINKING

This is a non-licensed venue, but you are allowed to bring your own alcoholic beverages. That said, we operate a Challenge 25 policy and ask that you drink responsibly at all times within the venue. If you are a heavy drinker and we feel your drinking is a cause for concern, you may be asked to refrain for consuming further alcohol. Please do not be offended by this, it is a moral and legal obligation. Soft drinks and bottled water are available free of charge at all times. We also understand that spills will happen but please observe our rules and respect our venue by ensuring that all alcoholic drinks remain in the lounge at all times. 

DRUGS

We have a zero tolerance to drugs and reserve the right to search bags and clothing if we suspect this rule has been broken. Please do not bring drugs to our events, or if offered, take them at our events. No member or guest shall use, ingest, possess or distribute drugs while on the premises and anyone breaking this rule will be expelled without exception.

CONDUCT

Members should treat other fellow Members and staff as they would wish to be treated themselves, with respect and acknowledge their boundaries at all times. Ask politely if you would like to join them and accept it gracefully if someone declines your request. Any member who willfully removes, damages or destroys any property belonging to the venue, or to members or staff on the premises will be liable to expulsion.

CONFIDENTIALITY

Members will hold all information about the club in strictest confidence at all times. In particular, the communication of information concerning the organisation or its members to the media is not permitted and is a disciplinary offence.

COMPETITIONS

From time to time, the club may run competitions in conjunction with our sponsors/partners. Participation in such competitions is subject to acceptance of the rules and terms and conditions of each competition, as set by the club and/or the sponsor/partner. Where a competition is for a vacation prize, entry to the competion is subject to full membership of the sponsors/partners website. Unless stated otherwise, prizes do NOT include cash, spending money, flights or travel expenses to/from prize winners location to the location of the vacation prize. Participants will be drawn at a party or series of parties at the club to constitute a place in the grand final draw. No cash alternative is available. If the final prize draw winner declines the prize, no additional draw shall be made. In ALL competitions, the judges decision is final. (The SDC.com Caribbean Cruise competition in 2017 is open to full members of SDC.com and the winner shall be drawn at the SDC.com party at Le Boudoir Club, London on 14th October 2017.  The final draw shall be made up of three (3) Le Boudoir members to be drawn at each SDC party in 2017 up to and including 14th October 2017)

RECIPROCAL ARRANGEMENTS

From time to time, we may enter into reciprocal arrangements with other lifestyle promoters on agreed terms for the benefit of Members. You will be notified of these arrangements by your preferred communication method. Such arrangements may be terminated or modified by us at any time and without notice.

PRIVATE AREAS

Most areas of the venue remain open to Members at all times but some areas are specifically designated as Private by the Management.  Please do not try to force entry to these areas and ask a member of staff if you are unsure.

ANIMALS

No animals, except assistance dogs, are allowed in the venue at any time.

COMPLAINTS & SUGGESTIONS

All members’ complaints or suggestions on how we can improve things are welcome. Please submit these in writing to the management.

PRICES & CREDIT

Prices are subject to change and absolutely no credit will be made available at any time. We are not a bank and banks do not host lifestyle parties!

REFUNDS

No refunds will be made in respect of membership suspensions or cancellation, irrespective of the reasons for suspension or cancellation. Requests for refunds or transfer of contributions towards an event will not be considered under any circumstances later than 19.00 on the day of an event. (If you buy a ticket to a concert and can't make the show, are you likely to get a refund?) When a transfer of contributions is granted, the party must be within 28 days and all transfers are subject to a £10 administration fee. No exceptions. 

INTERPRETATION OF THE RULES

In the event of any dispute arising as to the meaning or interpretation of these Rules, the matter should be referred to the Management, whose decision shall be final at all times.

AMENDMENTS TO THE RULES 

These Rules may be changed, varied or revoked by the management and any change, variation or revocation of the Rules shall be deemed to have been brought to the notice of the members provided that a copy thereof is duly posted on this  website for a period of not less than three days.  All Rules are binding on the members at all times.

APPLICATION PROCEDURE

Members must complete an application form via the website and produce the relevant ID for verification and age compliance.

A member of the Management team will receive the applications and upon approval will issue the Membership Card. Please note that due to demand, applications could take up to one week to be considered by the Membership Committee

When our membership has reached its capacity, applicants will be placed on a waiting list. No reason will be given for refusal of an application.

Any omission or inaccuracy in the particulars of any applicant for membership may render their application void.

RESIGNATION

Any Member wishing to resign his/her membership may do so at any time. Any Member who resigns during the course of their membership shall not be entitled to receive a refund of their subscription fee or party contribution at any time.

Should a Member wish to reinstate their membership, it is at the discretion of the Committee as to whether the applicant may incur the full annual subscription fee again.

MISCONDUCT

Complaints from Members of misconduct or misbehaviour should be made immediately to a senior Member of the Management who will investigate the incident.

Conduct that is considered prejudicial to the reputation and character of Le Boudoir or the safety and enjoyment of its Members may result in expulsion. Such conduct may include but is not restricted to: violent, abusive, racist, homophobic, sexist, ageist or ill-tempered behaviour and domestic quarrels.

Members agree not to make insulting remarks to, or about, other members ("flaming"), distribute illegal, copyright infringing, indecent or offensive material or undertake any activities that may incite disorder or encourage illegal activities or that causes or may cause harm to minors.

Members shall not impersonate another person or Member and shall hold only one membership at any time. They shall not use the venue to conduct any fraudulent activity nor participate in theft, damage or any action generally regarded to constitute anti-social behavior. The communication of information concerning the groups affairs, events, members or their guests to the media is abhorrent and will not be acceptable at any time.

An expelled Member shall cease to be a Member when the decision is communicated, either verbally or by written or electronic communication by Management.

In case of membership being rescinded no subscription fee will be returnable and we are not bound to submit reasons for membership cancellations and the decision of the Management is final and binding.

These rules may be added to, amended or revoked by the management at any time, and these rules shall, until changed by the management, be binding on members at all times.

LIABILITY OF THE MANAGEMENT

You agree to indemnify and hold the Club, its Management, Agents, Employees or the Venues we hire harmless from any claim or damages (including any legal fees in relation to same) made by yourself or a third party in respect of any matter in relation to or arising from your membership at any time. 

The Club, its Management, Agents, Employees or the Venue shall not be liable to any Member, Guest of a Member or third party for any loss, damage or injury suffered by them or their property howsoever caused, save in respect of death or personal injury to a Member or Guest caused by the negligence of the management.

PRIVACY POLICY

We know that some Members may wish to keep their private life to themselves and may not want their friends, family and colleagues to know about their social circle. From time to time, we may wish to inform you about special events or provide information pertinent to membership. By becoming a member you subscribe to our email newsletters, therefore, please ensure that you use an email that is private to yourself. You may unsubscribe from our mailing list at the time of application or at any time subsequently by clicking on the unsubscribe button at the bottom of the email message, or informing a Member of the management team that you no longer wish to receive correspondence.

DATA PROTECTION

We hold the security and identity of our Members most highly and under the Data Protection Act 1998 we have a duty to protect any personal information we collect from you. The website site is encrypted with an SSL certifcate and all digital data is held within a secure off-site server. 

We will only use personal information that you supply to us for the reason that you provide it, for identification and relevant communications from the club and the authorised partners that you will see on the website. We warrant that we will never publish, sell or pass on your personal information or email address to any third party other than the clubs official partners. We may also be obliged to provide your information to legitimate law enforcement agencies in the event of an official enquiry.

CONTACT DETAILS

Please inform the Membership Secretary if your contact details (email and postal address) change. This can be done in person at reception and also by writing to the Membership Secretary via our website.

MEMBERSHIP

There are various categories of membership: heterosexual couples, single female and single male

Except for a minimum age of 18 years, there are no age, gender or race restrictions on membership.

The management has full discretion to approve who is eligible to be a member. Membership is for a period of twelve months (unless revoked) from the date of approval.  Upon each renewal date, the applicable membership fees will be applied.

Every Member agrees to abide by the Rules upon acceptance as a Member and must acknowledge this in the designated box upon the membership application form.

MEMBERSHIP SUBSCRIPTION

 

An annual subscription fee must be paid. We accept cash, debit cards and Visa and Mastercard. It does not accept cheques or American Express. A £3.00 charge may be added to cover the cost of card processing and terminal fees.

 

(Last updated 5 February  2017)  Tags: sex parties swingers, sex club, swingers club, london swingers club, couples parties, libertines