Le Boudoir is an upscale private members' lifestyle social club where consensual play is welcome for those within the lifestyle and LGBTQ+ communities, in a non-pressurised environment. Our events are for liberated adults who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or discrimination. If you may be offended by expressions of sexual freedom, please do not register.
• Le Boudoir has long been regarded as one of Europe's leading lifestyle clubs. You are under no obligation to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, at any time.
• Our members come from across the world, from regular couples to city professionals, politicians, single mums, supermodels, celebrities from sport, TV and music, and even non-UK royalty (yes, really).
• Rule number one: be respectful at all times. You may be approached by other members, and the choice to engage is always yours. A polite “no thank you” will be respected.
• Discretion is held in the highest regard.
• Pre-registration is mandatory and does not guarantee acceptance.
• We reserve the right to withdraw membership at any time, without explanation, if management feels a member's conduct is unbecoming or not in the best interests of the club or other members.
Know your event. Couples and single ladies new to the lifestyle should note that Thursday and Friday events may include single males, for those who want additional male company. Saturday events are predominantly for couples and single ladies. Please contact us if in doubt. Couples should discuss their boundaries candidly before attending and respect them. Our events are meant to be fun, sociable and sexy.
Attendance. Once you have entered the venue, you are deemed to have attended. Because of external factors, we cannot guarantee total attendance or the ratio of couples, men and women on any night.
• Members must be 21 or older.
• You must have an approved registration before attending any event. Registration does not guarantee acceptance.
• Photo ID is required for every guest. In a couple's registration, both partners must bring photo ID. If you would rather not carry your original (tourists often don't want to risk losing a passport), we will accept a clear photo of your ID on your phone, which will be reviewed at the front desk.
• You must register with your real name, which is kept private. You may choose a public username. The name on your ID must match your registration. Please check your details are accurate, as we reserve the right to charge a £30 admin fee to correct deliberately false information at the front desk.
• Registrations must match the gender category supported by your government-issued ID. Individuals transitioning between genders are very welcome, and the applicable admission fees apply at all events.
• In a couple's registration, both people must consent to the application, and the female partner must be present at all physical events. A male on a couple's registration will not be admitted as a single male. If he wishes to be considered as a single attendee, he must apply as a single male.
• Two singles (M&F LB members) attending a Saturday event together: you are expected to arrive together, stay together and play together. Please buy the Play Partners Ticket (a small saving on single admissions), not a couple's ticket. If you buy a couple's ticket, the uplift will be applied at the front desk. If couples complain about a male behaving as a single, both people may be asked to leave.
• People working in the media are welcome, provided you respect the privacy of the club, its agents and all other users at all times.
• Anyone who resigns and wishes to rejoin must reapply, and reapplying does not guarantee acceptance.
• No subterfuge in your registration or use of the site.
• No means no, in person or online. Please respect it.
• Always ask for and give consent before any interaction, whether you are a man or a woman. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and silence is not a yes.
• Do not pressure anyone to play, drink or do anything they are not comfortable with.
• Everyone's dignity matters. No rude, racist, homophobic, violent, discriminatory or abusive conduct towards guests, hosts or staff will be tolerated.
• Single ladies are highly respected in our community. Stalking, harassment or rudeness towards any member, in person or online, is never permitted and can result in temporary or permanent suspension.
• Couples should arrive and depart together.
• You are wholly responsible for your own sexual wellbeing at all times. Staff cannot supervise member interactions, so you are responsible for ensuring consent has been sought and given.
• Safe sex is strongly advised at all times. Please bring condoms, although venues also sell them.
• Use the private, lockable playrooms if you prefer not to be approached or joined, and the open playrooms if you are happy to be.
• Please do not use a private playroom for more than 30 minutes. We are not a hotel! Other members may wish to use the room.
• If you enter a playroom and are not playing, please whisper or stay silent. No live commentary.
• Do not invade the personal space of others while they are playing. If in doubt, ask whether they would welcome your company, and accept the answer. Do not touch, join or crowd a scene without an explicit invitation.
• Closed doors and curtains mean private.
• Use only toys provided by the venue or your own, clean them after use and dispose of items properly.
• Overly intoxicated guests may be asked to leave a playroom or the party area, or be refused entry.
This matters. We may refuse admission if you look scruffy or unkempt. This is an upscale private members' club.
Ladies: dress up (or dress down). Be your sexy best: stylish, chic, daring. Lingerie is popular, and you can go bare if you dare, as we are clothing optional. We say “wear what you dare”.
Gentlemen: be well groomed, please. Keep long hair tidy and facial hair shaved or trimmed; an unkempt appearance may see admission declined. Wear smart trousers or smart dark jeans (black or dark blue) with a collared, buttoned shirt, a smart plain polo or a V-neck sweater. Shoes or black sneakers only (no white footwear, unless it's the White Party). Please put some effort in to match the ladies.
For everyone, we may refuse entry for: ripped, paint-covered or patched jeans, shorts, T-shirts, vests, singlets, hoodies, sweatshirts or sports-style tops, Converse, white sneakers or white sports footwear (we don't care about the brand or the price), DM or construction-style boots, sandals, and caps or hats.
Clothing is optional at our events, but nobody is obliged to do anything they don't want to.
• Le Boudoir does not sell private information or release it to other guests or third parties, except where required by law or necessary to operate our services. To contact a guest, ask them directly at an event.
• What happens at Le Boudoir stays there. Do not disclose who attended, what you saw or anything that could identify another guest, including on social media or in messaging groups.
• No recording devices of any kind: cameras, mobile phones, camera-equipped smart watches, Meta glasses or similar. If a member is suspected of recording, we may take action, including calling the police to seek deletion of all material, and the member will be banned.
• Zero tolerance for drugs and for solicitation. This covers the promotion or use of drugs, prostitution, and any exchange of sexual services for payment. Venue security will confiscate suspicious substances, ask you to leave and report incidents to the police. Complaints may lead to cessation of your account.
• Please do not bring alcohol to any venue. Unless stated otherwise, our venues have fully licensed bars.
• Weapons, glass and other potentially harmful items may not be brought in.
• Guests are responsible for their own belongings.
• Keep the venue clean and tidy. If you have an accident, clean it up or ask staff for help.
• Keep your voice down outside and respect the neighbourhood. Arrive and leave quietly, and do not loiter in the street.
• Damage to the venue or its fittings will be charged to the guest responsible.
• LB Premium is the club's optional social network, separate from the standard membership required to attend events. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the renewal date, and can be managed in your account settings.
• The network is for engaging with members about event attendance. Soliciting private meets or events may result in loss of Premium access. Withdrawal of Premium access does not affect your ability to attend events.
• Undue promotion of services, events, parties or private meets (paid or free) outside the club, or deliberately diverting communications to third-party apps, websites or telecoms, may result in immediate withdrawal of Premium access or termination of your account. Any invitation to a private meet or party promoted on the same weekend as a Le Boudoir event will trigger an immediate account review.
• Staff do not read private messages. Automated tools (AI) scan messages for trends, keywords and phrases to identify conduct that is not in the best interests of the club or its members.
• All purchases are non-refundable and non-transferable. Running our events takes a huge investment of time, resources and money, and we cannot verify last-minute excuses. If you had concert tickets, you wouldn't get a refund at short notice either.
• Exception: we will consider a transfer request if it is received at least 2 hours before the original event starts and you request an alternative event within 60 days of the original booking. A £30 admin fee applies.
• Purchases are in GBP (shown on statements as LB TICKETS) or USD (shown as ML TICKETING).
• Competitions may be held with partners and are subject to our rules and any partner registration. Prizes cannot be exchanged for cash, holiday prizes do not include travel unless specified, and if a winner declines, no alternative draw is made. The club's decisions are final.
• Breaches of these rules may result in a warning, removal from the event without refund, and temporary or permanent suspension.
• The club's and venue's decisions on conduct and admission are final.
• If you feel uncomfortable or see something concerning, please speak to staff or a host straight away. All concerns are treated seriously and discreetly.
• Indemnity: you agree to indemnify and hold harmless the club, its management, staff, agents and venues from any claim or damages (including legal fees) made by you or a third party, for any loss, damage, injury or harm to you, them or property, howsoever caused. This includes any claim of misconduct. Attendance is at your own risk, and the club and venues accept no responsibility for lost or stolen property.
• Nothing in these rules excludes or limits liability that cannot lawfully be excluded or limited, including liability for death or personal injury caused by negligence.
What are the age and ID requirements?
You need an approved registration and must be 21 or older. Every guest must show photo ID at the front desk, and for couples, both partners must have ID. Accepted ID is a driving licence, passport or government-issued ID card. If you don't want to carry the original, a clear photo of it on your phone is acceptable. The name on your ID must match your registration. No ID = no admission.
What should I bring?
Your photo ID (or a clear photo of it on your phone), and condoms. They are also sold at the venues if you forget. Please don't bring alcohol or drugs to any venue.
Can I bring recreational drugs?
Absolutely not. See the rules above.
Do you have lockers?
Yes. The venues usually have a cloakroom and lockers. Please leave coats, phones and bags you don't need at check-in. Small lockers (approx. 30cm high × 20cm wide × 30cm deep) fit a change of clothes and a handbag. Most venues require a £20 cash deposit for the key, which is returned as long as you hand the key back on the night. Fail to return the key and you lose the deposit.
We can't attend now. Can we get a refund or reschedule?
See “Tickets, Refunds & Competitions” above.
How will the purchase appear on my statement?
As LB TICKETS (GBP) or ML TICKETING (USD).
How do we find you?
For everyone's privacy, venue locations are kept private. The exact address is in your ticket confirmation email. Don't rely on addresses found online, as they may be inaccurate. Our most-used London venue is within a few minutes of Liverpool Street and Tower Bridge. For hotels, search around Aldgate and Aldgate East, such as Leman Locke Aparthotel, Premier Inn Alie Street, The Clayton Aldgate, Ibis City Commercial Street, The Gate Luxury Aparthotel, Travelodge London Central Aldgate East, Qbic Whitechapel and The Dorsett Aldgate.
Who do I contact with questions?
Use the “Contact Us” page at www.leboudoir.club or email info@leboudoir.club.
How do I apply for membership?
Click Sign Up on the top menu. Registration does not guarantee acceptance.