WHAT TO EXPECT AT LE BOUDOIR
Le Boudoir is a Private Members' Lifestyle Social Club where consensual engagement is allowed for those within the lifestyle and LGBTQ+ communities in non-pressurised environments.
If you may be offended by expressions of sexual freedom, please do not register on this site. Our events are specifically for liberated adults, wishing to explore and experiment with their sexuality without judgment or discrimination, so please respect their choice.
Le Boudoir has long been regarded as one of Europes leading Lifestyle clubs. A haven for those wanting to explore their sexual liberation. But, you are under no obligation to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable at any time.
Our members come from across the world and include regular couples to city professionals and politicians. Single mums to super models, celebrities from sport, TV and music and even non-UK royalty (yes, really) are members of Le Boudoir.
Guests take pleasure in dressing up or wearing something a little extra risqué to our events. For instance, ladies often wear lingerie. We say 'wear what you dare'. but gentlemen, please put some effort in to match the ladies! (see dress code further down)
The No1 rule which ALL guests need to acknowledge is to be respectful at ALL times. Socialising free from inhibition with like-minded adults means you may be approached by other members. Just remember the choice to engage or otherwise is always yours. People will respect a polite 'no thank you'.
We hold the right of members to discretion most highly. Pre-registration is mandatory and does not guarantee acceptance.
The club reserves the right to withdraw membership at any time and without explanation if the club management feels that a member's conduct is unbecoming and not in the best interests of the club or other members.
Very important, for couples and single ladies exploring the lifestyle for the first time, please understand that Thursday and Friday events will include the attendance of single males for those wishing to engage with additional male company. Saturday events are predominantly restricted to couples and singles ladies. It is important to fully understand which event may suit you best (please contact us if in any doubt) and, if attending as a couple, to discuss candidly before coming to an event what your own personal boundaries are and to respect them. Our events are meant to be fun, sociable, and sexy. Domestic tension can soon be disruptive and unattractive to see on camera or in real life.
Once you have entered the venue, you are deemed to have attended the event. No request for a refund or ticket transfer will be considered, irrespective of circumstances.
Because of the external factors which can affect the attendance at events, we can make no promises or guarantees about total attendance or ratios of couples/male/female attendees on any given night.
Finally, please read through all of our Rules and FAQS (below)
CLUB RULES
Presentability & Dress Code. This is super important, we won't admit you if you look unkempt.
Ladies - Please dress up (or dress down…) Be your sexy best. Stylish, chic, daring… Lingerie is popular and even go bare if you dare, we are clothing optional after all.
Gentlemen – BE WELL GROOMED. Long hair must be kept tidy and facial hair should be shaved or trimmed. Unkempt hair and beards may see your admission declined. Wear smart trousers or smart dark jeans with a buttoned shirt (with a collar!) or a smart plain polo shirt or V-neck sweater, please. Shoes or black sneakers only. (No white footwear - unless its the white Party!)
For both men and women, we may not admit you if you wear Ripped, paint covered or patched jeans. Absolutley NO shorts, T-Shirts, vests, singlets, hoodies, sweatshirts, or other sports style tops. NO Converse, white sneakers, white training / sport style footwear (we don't care what brand and how much you paid!) No DM or construction site style boots, sandals or caps / hats.
BE AWARE IN ADVANCE - THIS IS AN UPSCALE PRIVATE MEMBERS CLUB AND WE MAY NOT ADMIT YOU IF YOU LOOK UNKEMPT.
No, whilst we hold clothing-optional events, both live and virtual, nobody is under any obligation to anything they don't want to. Ours is a social environment for consenting adults, you know your own limits.
Can I attend events with recreational drugs?
Absolutely not. We do not condone the use of any prohibited substances and complaints may lead to the cessation of your account.
Do you have lockers?
Yes, the venues we use usually have both a cloakroom and lockers available. We ask you to leave your coats, phones and any bags that you might not need at check-in. Small lockers (aprox 30cm high x 20cm wide and x 30 deep) are for a change of clothes and handbags. The venue will require a £20 CASH deposit for a locker key. Providing you return the key ON THE NIGHT, they will be pleased to hand you back a crisp £20 note. Lose the key and well... lose the deposit.
We booked a ticket, but can't attend now. can we get a refund or reschedule it?
Ok, so we genuinely hope that no one gets ill or has a family emergency. However, it is impossible for us to know if the excuse is genuine, or you just got a better offer and changed your mind (yes, we know it happens, especially at Christmas and NYE!). Running the site takes a huge investment in time, resources, and money, and as such, all purchases are non-refundable. If you had concert tickets, would you be able to refund at short notice? No. We will entertain a request for a transfer, providing it is received no later than 2hrs before the start time of the original event and an alternative event within 60 days of the original booking is requested. A £30 admin fee will be applied.
How will the ticket purchase appear on my bank statement
Ticket Purchases appear as LB TICKETS or ML TICKETING on any bank/card statements at this time.
What are the Age and ID requirements?
You must have an APPROVED REGISTRATION at Le Boudoir before you attend any of the clubs events. You must 21yrs or older to attend an event and photographic ID (Drivers license, passport, or government-issued ID card) MUST be produced at the front desk on your first visit for each membership applicant to ratify the membership application. NO ID = NO ADMISSION
What can I and Can't I bring to the event?
You MUST bring your PHOTO ID.
You should bring condoms and practice safe sex at all times – the venues also sell them if you forget (or are a sexual Olympian!).
Please DO NOT bring alcohol or drugs to any venue. We do not condone the use of drugs under any circumstances. Venue security will confiscate any suspicious substances and ask you to leave the venue immediately and report such incidents to the police. Unless stated otherwise, the premises we use include fully licensed bars.
We have two singles accounts, can we attend together on a Saturday Event?
Yes, but, we do have some expectations. When two singles (M&F) attend together, we expect you to come together, stay together and always play together. If complaints are raised from couples about a male behaving as a single, both people may be asked to leave the event.
You should purchase the 'Two Singles Together Ticket' which provides a small saving against the relevant single admissions. Please do not purchase a couple's ticket, the uplift will be applied at the front desk upon arrival.
How do we find you?
For the discretion and privacy of everyone who attends Le Boudoir events, we keep the location of our venues very private. The exact address of a venue will be included within the ticket confirmation email that you will receive after purchasing a ticket. Don't rely on any address you find online, it may well be innacurate.
For planning purposes the venue most used in London is within a few minutes of Liverpool Street and Tower Bridge. For hotels, just Google for those around Aldgate and Aldgate East. These include:
Leman Locke Aparthotel
Premier Inn Alie Street
The Clayton, Aldgate
The Ibis City, Commercial Street
The Gate Luxury Aparthotel
Travelodge London Central, Aldgate East
Qbic, Whitechapel
The Dorsett, Aldgate,
Where can I contact the organiser with any questions?
You can reach us via the 'CONTACT US' page on our website www.leboudoir.club, or by email at info@leboudoir.club
Please check that the names you have submitted on your registration are true and accurate. If you have been 'discrete' and they are not true and accurate, it would be good for us to update them now and avoid confusion and delays when you are standing in line with your photo ID to get into the club on your first night. In addition, we will charge a £30 admin fee to correct deliberately false information at the front desk.
Respect your fellow members within the Community. Stalking, harassment or rudeness toward any other member, in any form, real or cyber, is never permitted and can result in temporary or permanent suspension of registration.
Individuals transitioning between genders are very welcome to register, but, registrations are required within the gender category that can be supported by your government-issued ID and the applicable admission fees apply at all events.
Le Boudoir does not sell or release any private information to third parties.
Purchases will be transacted in GBP and will appear as LB TICKETS on your statement, or in USD and will appear as ML TICKETING. ALL purchases non-transferable and non-refundable at all times.
Within a couples' registrations, it is expected that both people are in consent of the application and that the female will always be present at physical events. A male registered within a couple's registration will not be admitted as a single male to any event.
Cyber or otherwise, No means No. If someone tells you no, we ask you to respect this decision
All guests should respect the dignity of others. No rude, racist, homophobic, violent or abusive conduct will be tolerated.
If you enter a playroom and are not playing, we kindly ask that you whisper or do not talk at all. NO live commentary, please.
Le Boudoir has a zero-tolerance policy for the promotion of drugs or solicitation.
Attendees shall ensure that there is no subterfuge within their registration or use of the site at any time.
For those employed within any capacity of the media, it does not preclude membership, but, you warrant to respect and uphold the right to privacy of the club, its agents, and all other users at all times.
Overly intoxicated guests may be asked to leave a playroom, real or virtual.
Competitions - From time to time, we may hold competitions at an event or across a series of events in association with partners. Participation may be subject to registration with the partners and at all times are subject to our rules. Vacation prizes do not include travel unless specified and cannot be exchanged for any monetary alternative. If a draw winner declines the prize, no alternative shall be drawn. The club's decisions are final at all times.
Individuals resigning their registration(s) will be required to submit a new application should they wish to rejoin. Application does not guarantee acceptance.
You agree to indemnify and hold the club, its management, staff, agents, and venues, harmless of any claim or damages (including any legal fees in relation to the same) made by yourself or a third party, for any loss, damage, injury or harm suffered by you or them or to property howsoever caused.
How do I apply for Membership
Just click the Sign-Up Button on the top menu, or click here – SIGN ME UP. (Registration is no guarantee of acceptance)